adventures
A funny kind of highlight at the end of June was getting in a fight with a Zen Buddhist practitioner. They had joined a group of Christians who hadn't had any past experience of interfaith dialogue for the week-end. A Muslim woman had also come to speak. Anyway, while she was speaking, the Buddhist man asked the kind of question that is less of a question than it is a soap box statement. The ironic bit, was that it wasn't really a religious dialogue question, it was more a secular atheist attack on this woman because she was Muslim, but hiding behind this thin veil of "I'm a peaceful Buddhist practitioner." I was so not impressed. It really got my adrenalin pumping.
I thought it was funny in an ironic way that I (with all my interfaith experience) was the one who got all angry and had trouble not exacerbating the conflict.
July has been amazing because I haven't gone anywhere! I haven't stayed in the city this long basically ever. That has on the one hand allowed me to engage more both in work and socially, but it's been balanced by a fantastically excessive number of visitors from back home, which means I'm still not totally just engaging in my present. Or rather, my present remains more complicated than it could be.
Last week was great because I was helping with a holiday club. It's like vacation Bible school, only there's little kids from lots of backgrounds. I got to play an artist in the daily drama, my painting was stolen. Such good times! Little kids are also fascinating and fun. They really care. They are really selfish. They are really unselfconscious. And they are all fantastic artists.
That said, I had more trouble with the 10 and 11 year olds. Their way of interacting reminded me of certain eras of merciless teasing in my life that made school miserable. But when I raised it with the other adults, they just shrugged and said, "that's how kids are." I found it a little painfully ironic that in a "peacemakers" holiday club we weren't even trying to teach kids alternative ways to joke together without tearing each other down. I think I need to learn more about children and teaching.
Certain bits of my networking feel like they are beginning to come together. I'm feeling out an opportunity to do some English tutoring in a Bengali community. Our hopes for a women's dialogue group are starting to solidify, hopefully to take real shape in the autumn.
Anyway, work life slows down here in August, which I think is just great. I'm looking forward to a quieter work month, as my visitors' comings and goings will keep me on my toes just fine.
